Sweet baby Jacob at home in November 2001
Me with Jacob in November 2001
Ten years ago today, my Family was in turmoil. We had just learned that my baby brother had been killed in a car accident, only weeks before his 21st birthday. After receiving this horrific news, my husband and I immediately boarded a plane in Georgia with our infant son, bound for Texas to be with my mom and sister. Just as the shock of his death was beginning to sink in, my baby sister went into premature labor at 29 weeks pregnant. A little over 24 hours after my brother died, my sister gave birth to a tiny new baby boy. He didn't have a name yet; that was still to be decided. He was the teeniest thing, at 2.9 lbs. and 15 inches long. He was rushed into the NICU upon birth and spent the next three months there, growing and getting stronger each day. The day of his birth was monumental for us. We were all still in shock over the loss o...