Our first date on May 19, 1988 May 19 has been a favorite day of mine since 1988. It marks the very first date I had with my husband ... and the start to the most wonderful relationship of my life. Nate and I have a longer history even than that. We were in the same 1st and 4th grade class at Edison Elementary School and attended the same church throughout childhood. When we search our memories, we don't really remember each other despite these early connections. Our story really begins in 1988. Interestingly, it begins with my Mimi. My grandmother, Mimi, was a substitute teacher at the high school where Nate attended school. At some point, apparently, she decided that this was the boy for me. Clearly, none of my previous boyfriends or friends who were boys made the grade with her. Unbeknownst to me, she talked to Nate about me ~ even showing him pictures of me!! ~ and let him know she would be inviting me to attend c...